Q:At a friend's recent wedding, one of our mutual friends got a hold of the mike and delivered a drunken, somewhat inappropriate, and definitely unexpected toast. How can I stop this from happening at my wedding?
First of all, chances are your mutual friend feels too embarrassed to ever try that move again. But just in case, be sure your event planner, day-of coordinator, and/or emcee know specifically who is delivering each wedding toast. Provide a list with the full names of your friends or relatives, the roles they are fulfilling, and in which order they are speaking (for instance, Michael Smith, Best Man, 1st speech). Most importantly, lend specific instructions to the holder of the microphone (in most instances, your band leader or DJ) that he or she is not, under any circumstances, to hand the microphone over to any other guest.
[url=http://www.buy-mens-suits.com]mens suites[/url] Q:I'm getting married for the first time and I have a little girl. All the guests know about her, but most are trying to convince me to exclude her from the wedding and not to wear a white wedding dress. I really want my daughter to be involved -- I'm not ashamed of her. What role should she play (she'll be 18 months old), and can I wear a traditional wedding dress?
Sometimes when you do something (or even express interest in doing something) that's not exactly traditional, people get uneasy and start talking about rules -- what's appropriate and inappropriate. The question is, how much will you let others' opinions affect you? It sounds like you know what you want to do: include your daughter in the wedding and wear the wedding dress you want to wear. Since your daughter will be too young to serve as a flower girl, you can walk down the aisle with her (or carry her in your arms) and then hand her to your mother in the first row as you step up to meet your groom. As for your wedding dress, rest assured that wearing white is completely appropriate for any bride, first wedding or second, mom or not.
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